I find resolutions interesting. As I commented on Noelle’s post (linked below),
I like ones that are “commitments to try”, so to speak. You know they’re goals and things you’d like to do, but they’re not “have-tos”.
Setting unattainable resolutions can lead to trouble or so it seems – we gain only negative emotions when we revert to old habits after promising to keep to a path for a year.
I remind myself that these are goals, to be practiced and worked on during the year but not mandatory.
With that in mind, some ones for this year are:
- Do well in my Masters coursework etc.
– Ask for help if I need it and monitor myself so that the changes of this year don’t cause my grades to drop.
- To listen twice as much as I speak;
– I’ll be addressing this in more depth later, but as I’m a talker and social person who also is a “Feeler” (high F in Myers-Briggs, for example), I worry about my ratio of talking to listening. So I’m working on it.
- Alongside the above is my want to actively practice my Feeling
– Again, I’ll explain in another post, but cultivating my empathetic presence is important to me. These first two are very connected.
- To get back into blogging
– I fell off a regular blogging schedule a bit over the second half of 2016, but I’d like to be more consistent.
- To get back into writing my story.
– I’ve done quite a lot of backstory-work but haven’t actually done any story-writing for a while. I need to get back into that.
- To be more active and finding more walking spaces.
– I’m not naturally a person who gets active, as I’m not sporty. But I like nature and I like walking and I know I ought to be sitting less. I’m not interested in overdoing it though, as I’m skinny enough as it is.
Idea taken from the post linked below:
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